Deidra Gets to Enjoy Crossdressing at last!

Great pictures and your truly an inspiration to others

You look fantastic…you have beautiful body…..

Hi Deidra:

You are very pretty and feminine in appearance. I too am in my 70’s, semi retired and enjoying my renewed life as Phylliss. My wife, who passed away 2 1/2 years ago, was not sympethetic to my desire to crossdress. She was a lovely lady and mother to our wonderful children, and I miss her dearly, but her mind on dressing was firm. Only occasionally durining our 49 years of marriage was I able to express my feminine me by dressing as a women for halloween or costume parties. Other times – no way. Crossdressing has helped me deal with the grief that most experience as a result of loosing someone you love. Shortly after her death, while working on estate matters, I said “why not”. I’m sitting at my desk alone and I could sense the relief I would experience if was wearing a dress while ding this work. I shopped on e-bay and Etsy alot. I learned how to measure myself so mistakes were limited, and I soon acquired a taste for buying nice outfits. Not everything I purchased turned out the way I had anticipated, but about 80% of what I bought I still have in my closet. While I do have a part time job to get me out of the house,I have ample time to take care of my feminine clothes and plenty of chances to wear them. I do my nails frequently and, when I have a few days in a row when I can be at home, I will take the extra time to do acrylics.

Thanks to e-bay its fun to shop on line. It is a challenge to key into the right categories for items I’m looking for, but after a while one can become good at finding what you want. I have purchased some very pretty dresses, skirts with flattering tops, I have many lovely slips and a few gowns in my wardrobe. I love wearing these clothes so much that I feel something is missing when I am not.

About four years ago I went to see my doctor about a lump that had developed in my left breast. After having a mamogram and ultrsound the doctor determined it was a benign condition, but needed watching. At the same time the doctor advised me that I was showing evidence of early stage gynecomastia or enlarging breasts. I had a hormonal count performed which supported the doctors intiial evaluation that I had a hormone imbalance. Two years later I had the lump removed as a precaution. The surgeon that perfomed the operation spoke a little about breast growth, which was helpful, and advised me, somewhat, on what I could expect in the future. The mamogram and ultrasound scans continue to show increased breast growth from one year to the next.

While I love to wear female clothes I never dreamed that I would be wearing bras for comfort rather than for crossdressing affect. I’m not sure what size bra I needed when all this started to happen, but as my breasts grew they became uncomfortable, not only from the extra weight but also due to pain. Now I am a firm 40C breast size. I wear a bra just about every day. For vanity reasons I conceal my breasts with tight fitting sports bras when I go out. Regardless of what I think about my appearance, people do stare at you for looking different. During the winter, when I have loose bulky clothing on, I am able to wear a regular bra. The rest of the time, when I am dressed as a lady, my recently developed anatomy only enhances my crossdressing experiences.

Best regards Deidra and love to all.